The Sea And Me

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 Keeping My Mind. I’ve been out at sea for the past 15 years now; it’s all I do. I wait for the tide to rise high enough to get the boat out of the Scottish harbour, travel five miles out into the North Sea (the most treacherous sea in the world), and then drop my anchor and grab about three hours of sleep. Of course, I check the weather beforehand, and as much as I try to be careful, the weather can change on a whim. I wish I didn’t have to sleep, but everyone knows that’s impossible. It can be even more dangerous when you’re asleep, not just because the weather can change suddenly, but also because fishing trawlers have a nasty habit of catching fire. There’s a mountain of electrical cabling mixed with a fuel tank containing 2000 litres of diesel, plus other hazards that I won’t bore you with being on board. This is a video I took not long ago, it was of a trawler on fire close to me. So yes, it is the most dangerous job in the world, just one wrong step and it's game over! Yet,...

Handling Rough Seas: A Fisherman’s Practical Guide

 January in the North Sea is not for the faint hearted.

The cold cuts deeper. The decks are slick with ice. Snow blows sideways, driven hard by a wind that never seems to rest. Hands crack, oilskins stay wet for days, and sleep comes in short, broken spells. This is the season that tests you, not just as a fisherman, but as a human being.

Yet winter also teaches lessons you won’t learn anywhere else.




1. Respect the Sea, Always

The first rule of rough weather is simple: don’t fight the sea.


The North Sea doesn’t care how experienced you are, how tough you think you are, or how much work needs doing. In winter, she demands patience and respect. Move slower. Think twice. Secure everything, then secure it again.


Rough seas punish shortcuts.


What keeps you safe isn’t bravery, it’s discipline.


2. Keep Warm, Keep Dry, Keep Moving

Cold steals strength before you realise it.

In winter, survival is about layers, routine, and movement:

  • Change wet gloves whenever you can

  • Eat hot food, even when you don’t feel hungry

  • Keep moving, standing still is when the cold wins

A hot drink shared on deck can lift morale more than any speech ever could. Sometimes it’s the small comforts that stop a hard day becoming a dangerous one.


3. One Job at a Time

When the sea is running high, don’t think about the whole trip.

Think about the next job.

Secure the gear. Clear the deck. Check the ropes. Then move on to the next task. Rough weather overwhelms those who look too far ahead.

The same is true in life.

If things feel heavy right now (work, money, health, loss)  stop looking at the whole storm. Just steady yourself for the next wave.


4. Talk, Even When It’s Hard

On long winter trips, silence can be louder than the wind.

A quiet word in the wheelhouse. A joke shouted over the engine noise. A shared memory from warmer days. These things matter more than people admit.

You don’t have to carry everything alone, at sea or ashore.

And if you’re struggling in the wider world right now, know this: needing help doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human.


5. Trust the Crew, Be Part of the Crew

No one works alone in rough seas.

You trust the skipper to read the weather. You trust the crew to have your back when the deck shifts under your feet. And they trust you in return.

Life works the same way. When things are hard, lean on others, and be someone others can lean on. Strength is shared. 💪





6. Remember: Storms Pass

Every winter trip feels endless when you’re in it.

But no storm lasts forever.

There will be a moment, often suddenly, when the wind eases, the seas lie down, and the light breaks through the clouds. The wheelhouse warms. The deck steadies. You breathe again.

If you’re reading this and struggling right now, hold on to that truth.
This moment will pass.
You don’t need to see the horizon yet,  just stay afloat.


Final Thoughts from the North Sea

Winter fishing isn’t glamorous. It’s cold, wet, exhausting, and unforgiving. But it builds something solid inside you,  patience, resilience, and a quiet confidence that says:

“I’ve been through worse. I can handle this.”

Whether you’re working the decks of a trawler, or just trying to get through a hard season of life, keep going. Take it one wave at a time.

The sea teaches us that survival isn’t about being fearless, it’s about enduring.


And enduring is enough.





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